The number of people reaching out to me for nutrition counseling involving weight management has increased considerably. After conducting numerous consultations, I began to see a common thread. Most of the people contacting me where unhappy with the status of their physical health since dealing with the pandemic. Many of them narrated the toll the pandemic has taken on their mental health also.

I cannot lie. I am extremely grateful that I am not only qualified but also available to provide nutrition education during these times. However, if I am completely honest, I have found that everyone contacting me are simply not ready. Allow me to explain. Majority of the people who have contacted me did so because they are unhappy with the physical changes they have observed in their appearance; only a fraction may have noticed the emotional connection to those changes. It can be easier to identify the emotional issues resulting from an undesired change in physical appearance, but what about the emotional issues that acted catalytically? Yes, there is a cause and effect in this situation. However, there is also a catastrophic coexistence.

Once we begin to discuss their expectations of nutrition therapy and their desired results, I find that many people have not realized that changing their behavior is only one detail of much a larger picture. When we review the onset of change, their mindset throughout the period of change, and their behavior(s) driving change, they become triggered. This is about when it is revealed and/or realized that the source of their behavioral change(s) may have not been properly identified. Changing their physical status can’t be resolved until they understand the cause of the change in their behavior.

For many, this is where they have to acknowledge that they are still coping. I am speaking specifically about cases relating to the pandemic. The desire to restore their physical health may be there. However, the realization that changing their physical appearance may be difficult while still experiencing the causative emotional trauma must be realized. It is required actually.

After seeing this situation occur repeatedly, I decided to shift my approach for the pandemic pound sufferers. I counseled them to understand that there is an additional layer to address. Consequently, there is potential for this to be a somewhat more difficult weight management experience. It’s not that they cannot achieve their goal; they must acknowledge the intensified challenge of seeking change while experiencing trauma.

Below I have listed some questions I encourage pandemic pound sufferers to ask themselves to determine if they are ready to confront this issue.

  • Have I noticed changes in my behavior and thoughts towards eating since being in the pandemic? Prior to the pandemic, did you practice different eating behaviors that you have now abandoned?
  • Have I been emotionally eating?
  • Am I ready to change? This is deeper than being unhappy with your current situation. You can want change; this is different than being ready to take action for change to occur.
  • Am I able to work on this issue in the midst of coping? If you have found it difficult to function as you would have functioned prior to dealing with the pandemic, you have to realize that you are indeed still coping. Not only have things not returned to the way they were before all of this happened, but the reality is also that some things may never do so. Have you accepted this? Can you handle it? Your next step is dependent on your answer to these questions.

If you found it difficult to answer these questions or found them triggering in a way, take a deep breath. Do not place pressure on yourself to make any adjustments right away. Grab your journal and begin writing. Ascertain where you are and identify your present position. Refer to my Mindful Nutrition post for additional information and suggestions to assist you with determining where you are.  Accept where you are currently and set a timeline of realistic measures to achieve your nutrition goals. For suggestions on how to do this, refer to my post about Setting Practical Nutrition Goals.

Once you are aware of where you are and when you are comfortable, gradual changes may serve you more beneficially instead of committing to an abrupt strictly regimented reconditioning. Know that you are not alone. You are not on a clock. There is not a set date and time in place by which you must recover from this experience. Allow yourself grace to regroup and the space to prioritize your concerns. 

If you have answered these questions and feel that you are ready to tackle those pandemic pounds, I wish you well on your nutrition journey and hope that your total wellness is restored. Be encouraged.

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